Manifest a Soulmate Step Four

The more that you get in touch with what type of partner is right for you, the more power you will have to call this partner forth. In this article Manifest a Soulmate Step Four, we get into the specifics of how to do exactly that. Some people, as they do this step, have felt that they magically conjured up their soulmate. They couldn’t believe such a man or woman existed, but somehow he or she managed to come into their life.

Be Very Specific

The most important part of this step is to define what you want. Often we think that we know what we want, but in defining it we talk about what we don’t want instead of what we do want. Doing this shifts our energy and attention to manifest all the things that we don’t want rather than what we do want. If you focus on what you don’t want, then you give energy to that and it will find a way to manifest in your life. This obviously means that thinking about what we don’t want isn’t going to help us to produce what we do want.

Draw Up A List

Take some time out to concentrate on what you’d like to have in a partner. What physical characteristics would he or she have? Where would you like to live? What would you like to achieve together? Describe his or her character traits. If you hate it when someone is late to meet you, then obviously you don’t want to manifest a soulmate who is always late. So put on your list that he or she will be consistently reliably punctual. That’s just one example of the things to include. You have to know exactly what you want in order to manifest it.

Write What You Want

Always define what you want in terms of the positive half of the equation. So instead of writing “I don’t want someone who will cheat on me,” write, “He (or she) is loyal and faithful and has good family values.” Remember to write it as if you are describing someone whom you already know. This is how you will magnetise them into your life. Take all day long to get the image right if you need to.

Ask yourself, “If I could have exactly what I want in a mate, what would their traits and characteristics be like?” Everyone is different, and so your list will be different to the next searcher’s list. By becoming very clear about what you want, you will manifest him or her exactly, if you are specific enough. Not everyone wants the same thing. As you get clear on what it is you like, what works for you and what doesn’t, you draw your soulmate closer to you.

Be Selective

When you’re out meeting people, be choosey. This will make sure that only your soulmate will manage to find you. Your soulmate will be everything that you want (with a lot of bonuses that you didn’t even think of thrown in).

Example

Betty got very specific, even including that he would have blue eyes, since that had always been her preference. (Many times we have a physical “type” because it is a homing device to lead you to your soulmate.) She included on her list how he would treat her, how they were as a couple and that he would have a family she could adore since her parents were dead. When she began dating Frank, she was instantly smitten.

But the thing that really threw her was that as she got to know him, she couldn’t believe how much he matched her list. Even down to his piercing blue eyes. And his family were all local and immediately embraced Betty as one of their own. Frank’s sister became Betty’s best friend! They are now engaged, planning a large wedding to include his scads of family.

Believe That It’s Possible

You must know in your deepest soul that it is possible for the thing you desire to be in your life. Miracles happen every day. Often things we never could have imagined were possible come together in the most unpredictable way. Just because something does not appear likely from your current vantage point does not mean that it is not possible. Believe in the possibility that what you desire could be in your life. The stronger your belief the less resistance you create. By reducing the resistance it is easier for the energy of what you do desire to materialise in your life.

If you do not believe that it is possible for your dream to be a part of your reality, you are energetically putting up a brick wall of resistance. You are blocking all possibility that you can manifest what you desire. Expect your dream to manifest. Know that it is happening. Know that the Universe is working in your favour, even when it does not appear to be from your perspective. Trust and believe what you desire is coming to you.

Exercise

Make a detailed list of everything that you want in a mate. If this is hard for you, think back to previous loves and remember what you enjoyed about them and what didn’t work for you (put the opposite of that on your list). Definitely include “crackling chemistry,” “endless honeymoon” and “adores me” on the list! Add to the list why they adore you and what you bring to the relationship (your soulmate may find your qualities that irritated other loves cute.) Also, jot down a few things that you are as a couple (i.e. dynamic, very even-keeled, no drama, uplift one another, go on adventures together, etc).

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