33 More Flirting Tips for Singles

This is the second in our three part series during the month of March 2018. We’ve got 33 More Flirting Tips for Singles here for you which will show you how to successfully flirt with a potential new partner. So here goes!

It is not bad to become obvious from time to time

There are flirtatious actions that are obvious but are also effective. An example of it would be throwing a ball or a Frisbee towards a person you are interested in. Being obvious is not bad, especially if you can pull it off effectively. Smile when you are doing it, so that the other person would find you cute, and would positively respond.

Don’t forget about social networking

There are lots of social networking sites that you can find on the internet today. One example of it is Facebook; and, one way of using it to flirt with someone you know is to post a comment in one of his pictures, and ask him what it is all about. After responding to your question, tell him to elaborate his answer to you in person, to prompt him to hang out with you.

Handwritten notes can still be effective

Lots of people say hi or communicate through text messages these times. To make your approach more unique, you can actually slip a handwritten note to his or her pocket when you are at a party or a get together event. This is so much better than text messages, since not most people are doing it today.

How to tell if a shy guy likes you

Shy guys are hard to crack at times, but there are actually signs that can tell you if he is into you. For example, if he seems to be very good in talking to everyone else except you, then he is shy and he likes you a lot. Aside from that, it is also possible to see him smiling at you at a distant, but would not look at you when you are near him.

Flirt with your guy before seeing him

If you have a date with a guy that you are interested in, it is also a good idea to flirt with him, even before the date. One of the ways to do it is through text messages. For example, you can tell him what color you want him to wear, since it makes him look more attractive. When you do that, it already sets up the flirting mood before seeing him, which can make your date more interesting.

Flirting only with your eyes

If you want a guy to make the first move and approach you, you can actually flirt with your own eyes to prompt him to do it. If the guy is across the bar, walk by him, and look at him up and down while slightly smiling. By the time you reach your seat, he should already be following and ready to talk to you.

Your nails can also help out

When it comes to flirting, you can also let your nails help out with it. Make use of a very feminine color to paint your nails with. Make sure that it matches perfectly with your dress. By doing this, not only would he be able to notice how attractive you are, but it would also boost your confidence in flirting with him.

Make him want more

At the end of the date, before going inside your place, give him a kiss and tell him you had a great time. This will make him want more, which would prompt him to set another date with you. Do it in a subtle way, so that it would become more effective.

Let him do something for you

If your date is kind of a shy person, then you have to come up with ways to make him more comfortable, especially if you really like him. Ask him to do something for you, such as grabbing a table napkin or ordering something at a restaurant. If he really likes you, he’ll be glad to do it for you, and it will boost his confidence.

How to flirt effectively

Always remember that your flirting efforts would become more effective when you are more confident. Aside from that, you should also not be afraid of taking risks. Moreover, to make your flirting work, you should be positive in doing it as well as enthusiastic.

Once you are already in a conversation

There are some people who may already know how to flirt at a distance, but do not know what to do when they are already talking to the other person. To carry a conversation, there are actually lots of things that you can talk about. Talk about the surroundings, your experiences, and share your opinions. Don’t forget to ask questions as well, so that you would also know the other person better.

Flirting can also be fun

Flirting should be fun. Enjoy it and it would become more effective. Be spontaneous in doing it and do not forget to be playful and light hearted. By doing all these things, you would not just enjoy flirting more, but it would also get you closer to the other person without really even trying too hard.

Props can also come in handy

Whenever you leave your place and you are thinking about meeting someone new, then do not forget to bring a prop or two. Props can come in handy, especially when you are stuck in talking about something. Aside from that, it can also make the other person ask you questions or talk about certain things related to your props. Some examples could be an interesting book, magazine, personalised cap, and an unusual jewellery.

Drive him crazy with a secret that does not exist

Once you have become more comfortable in talking with each other, tell your guy if you can tell him a secret. When he affirms, tell him that you changed your mind about it. This move will drive him crazy in wondering about what you were going to say. It can lead to a more fun conversation and get you closer together.

You can always make the first move

Once you see signals that he or she is flirting with you, there is no need to wait for them to make the first move. You can always do it, if you want to. Just a simple hello would start up a great conversation. Make sure to prepare some questions though, so that you can carry the conversation properly.

Listening is one of the keys to flirting effectively

Listening effectively whenever the other person is talking can help you in making your flirting more effective. This is because, it can help you respond well to what he or she is talking about. Aside from that, it would also draw them to you, since every person loves to be heard.

The proper way of maintaining eye contact

Maintaining eye contact with the other person is essential to let him know that you are into him. However, you should do it gently. In other words, look at his eyes for not more than 3 to 4 seconds and glance away. Staring is actually not a good way to impress your date, especially if you have a blank stare.

How to tell if a girl really likes you

Whenever you are talking to a girl that you are interested in, you can actually look at her eyes to see if she also feels the same way. One of the things that you can check out for this is her pupils. When they are dilated, while she is looking at you with deep interest, then it is a sign that she is really into you.

What her crossed leg is telling you

In most cases, women always have their legs crossed when they are sitting down and talking. If you are talking with a woman, and her crossed leg is pointed towards you, then it is a clear indication that she is interested in you. This is actually true, especially if she rocks that same leg back and forth while still pointed at you.

Expose your neck

For a woman to attract her man, one of the techniques that she can use is to expose her neck to him. There are many ways that this can be done. One of which is by tilting your head to one side. Aside from that, you can also do the classic hair flip. Whichever technique you use, it is best if you follow it up by looking at his eyes.

Wearing red lipstick

Men, and even women are attracted to the colour red, since it indicates youth, fertility, as well as sex. When it comes to men though, moist red lips is one of most attractive parts of a woman that can turn them on. Thus, it is best to wear a red lipstick, and to make it more effective, try flirting by biting your lower lip while talking to him.

Use your shoulders

When it comes to women, they are mostly attracted to men who are more dominant. This does not mean that you have to boss them around. This pertains to your appearance, which you can achieve when you stand tall and your shoulders back. Hold your head up high and come up with gestures that make you look more assertive.

Attract more women with your feet

Body language can get you anywhere especially if you make use of it properly. One of the things that you can do with it is to attract more women with the proper positioning of your feet. Since women are more attracted to males that appear dominant, you want to stand straight with your feet about 6 to 10 inches apart, while your toes are pointed outwards.

Do not lose focus

Always remember that one of the purposes of flirting, is to know the other person better. Thus, if you are already talking to her, then you should not lose your focus. This means that you should listen attentively to what she is saying. This you can show by nodding and tilting your head. Aside from that, you should also smile and laugh when the situation calls for it.

What to do when a woman starts flirting with you

You would know when a woman is starting to flirt with you by taking note of some indicators about it. Some of which would be low-level touching, extended eye contact, and laughing. If you like the person, then you should respond accordingly, such as flirting back.

Mimic the other one’s moves

One of the most popular flirting gestures is to mimic the other person’s moves. For instance, if she leans forward, then you can also lean forward; and, you may even be doing this without intending to. If you are aware of it though, do it in a subtle way, so that it won’t appear like you are making fun of her.

Grooming gestures

It is quite natural to groom oneself when you’re attracted to someone. These grooming gestures, such as fixing your tie, smoothing down your clothes, or checking your lipstick, can actually work better if you combine it with a smile. When you do that, it actually becomes an effective flirting gesture. It can get the attention of the one whom you’re trying to impress.

On your first date

When you are on a date with a woman you like for the first time, it is best to take note of some flirting gestures, which indicate that she likes you. Some of which would be when she rubs her chin, raises her voice to match yours, exposes her palm towards you, and such. By being mindful of these signs, it can give you an idea if she wants to go out with you again or not.

Be more approachable

One of the issues lots of women have to deal with is appearing unapproachable. To ensure that this is not the case with you, then you should stand in a way that make men see you as a desirable target. All you actually have to do is to place your feet not farther than 6 feet apart when you stand up, and see that your toes are pointed inwards.

Develop a sense of humour

Lots of women can become bored whenever they are with guys who are always talking about very serious stuffs. Thus, it is best if you develop a sense of humour, so that you can attract more women your way. Women love to laugh, and if you are good with it, then you’ll have a better chance in scoring a date with the woman who you’ve got your eye on.

Checking a woman out is considered flirting

There are lots of ways that you can flirt with a girl. In fact, checking a woman out and letting her catch you while doing it is a powerful way to get her to notice you. This flirting gesture is quite effective, since it makes a woman feel more attractive. Smile when she catches you, so that she won’t feel uncomfortable.

Timing is key

Flirting is something that you can do on a daily basis. However, for it to work, you have to make sure that you practice good timing. In other words, if you are planning to flirt with someone, make sure that she is also in the mood for it. With that, if she looks like she is very busy doing something, then you should do it later or some other time.

Don’t let an opportunity pass you by

Whenever flirting opportunities happen, you should know when and how to take advantage of them. Do not let any opportunity pass you by, so that you won’t end up regretting not taking the chance. For example, if a woman accidentally spills her drink at the bar, then you should know what to do next. There is no need to rush it. Wait for the right moment and look her straight in the eyes, and smile when you shake your head.

So that’s all for this second article in the flirting series. There’s one more article to come, and it’s due out in a few days. Thanks for taking the time to read this article here today, and we wish you well on your dating journey.

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