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Look for Trustworthy and Reliable

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Look for Trustworthy and Reliable

Sоmе gіrlѕ аnd wоmеn kеер аttrасtіng аnd сhооѕіng unаvаіlаblе mеn, аnd іf thіѕ іѕ hарреnіng tо уоu соnѕtаntlу, hоw саn уоu brеаk thе dіѕаѕtrоuѕ сусlе? Onе оf thе mоѕt соmmоn рrоblеmѕ wоmеn rероrt іn thеіr rеlаtіоnѕhірѕ іѕ thаt thеу оftеn fіnd thеmѕеlvеѕ fаllіng fоr mеn whо аrе unаvаіlаblе. Thіѕ саn іnсludе mеn whо аrе аlrеаdу іnvоlvеd іn rеlаtіоnѕhірѕ. Or, whоѕе јоbѕ рrеvеnt thеm frоm dеvоtіng аnу tіmе tо а gіrlfrіеnd. Or, whо аrе unаttасhеd аnd hаvе tіmе but аrе ѕіmрlу еmоtіоnаllу іmmаturе аnd thuѕ “unаvаіlаblе” fоr а rеlаtіоnѕhір. If you truly want to be in a loving relationship, you need to look for trustworthy and reliable in a partner. Continue reading

Affirmations for Self Worth

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  • I choose Being worthy of loving myself. I choose to allow, accept and receive love into my life now. I choose to love myself. I choose to love my body from the top of my head to the tips of my toes as it is and as it changes. I choose to care for my body, my mind and my spirit with love. I choose to do loving things for myself. I choose loving thoughts about myself. I choose loving self-talk.
  • I feel worthy of love. I feel love for myself. I feel love for my body for all my cells, my organs, tissues, bones, muscles and tendons. I feel love coming to me from my Eternal Source of Well-Being. I allow, accept and receive that love now. I feel good being loved and loving myself now.
  • I AM worthy of loving myself. I AM allowing, accepting and receiving love now. I AM loving myself. I AM loving my body. I AM loving all there is in me to love. I AM thinking about myself with loving thoughts. I AM talking to myself with loving words. I AM caring for myself with loving actions. I AM grateful for the love I have for myself now. I AM loved.
  • I choose to accept my worth now. I choose to accept my value living on the planet at this point in time. I choose to accept the excellence in my creation. I choose to accept the virtue in being who I AM. I choose to accept the merit in each moment I AM alive.
  • I feel worthy now. I feel value in my Be-ing. I feel the excellence of my creation. I feel virtue in who I AM. I feel merit in each moment of my life.
  • I AM worthy. I AM a valued and valuable human and spiritual being. I AM created in excellence and I create excellence. I AM part of the virtue in all of creation. I AM part of the merit in all creation. I AM grateful for the feeling of worthiness. I AM loved.




The Sexual Shadow and Love

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by Brett Kreiman

I think the biggest part of being human and making peace with our shadow and ego comes out of our need to feel that we are loved. Loved by others, and by ourselves. The search for love leads us down many winding paths. We are plopped down here with no clear destination and with no real idea of how we are supposed to get there even if we had somewhere we knew we wanted to go. The only real instinct we are given is that we seek out love. We don’t know how to do that or what that really entails at first, so we inevitably head down many wrong paths and make many mistakes before we even begin to figure out how to get a clue! If we are lucky we are surrounded by a loving family and group of people who help us make a little headway in the act of how to search…unfortunately for almost all of us, that is not the case! We get love from our family if we are fortunate enough to be born into a loving one, but more often than not, they mean well but they themselves usually came out of the same confusion we were born into. So we are forced to look outside of them to others, and even if our family is very loving, out of curiosity we look to others to see what they are doing and would recommend anyway…and we of course run into trouble…big trouble! It’s just the state of the world we live in to be born into this chaos and confusion and try to make sense of it all. Hell, that’s why we are here! We usually start off doing okay for ourselves for the most part, up until we hit puberty and then BAM! the world flips over on top of us and we have to wiggle our way out from underneath it. Continue reading