Rushing Into A Relationship
Are you attempting to rush into forming a relationship? This happens with some of our readers when you realise that most of your friends have steady partners. Or, that it is time for you to get married, or when you feel lonely. You tend to rush into an affair. You are willing to commit to someone despite feeling that this someone might not be the right match for you. This beckons future complications. Why do people behave in this manner? Is there a solution for this problem? What are people’s reasons for Rushing Into A Relationship ? It’s important to pace yourself when starting a relationship.
The Magnetic Attraction
Experiencing the desire to be in a relationship is only natural. It is a biological occurrence and there is nothing unhealthy or immoral about it. In fact, it is an indispensable part of human development. The problem creeps in when you enter a relationship to gratify some other yearnings that have no part in the actual relationship.
For example, if you are faced with problems at work, at home or with your health, you may believe that getting a companion will be the solution. You may want to escape the miserable situation that you are in at present. You think that you need someone else’s help to have a happy life. This motivation may eventually mar your relationship. Why? Because you are getting into it with a load of baggage yourself.
Avoiding Potential Problems
You can avoid this in two ways— either solve your problems first or ensure that your partner supports you from the onset. You must be clear about everything that is going on in your life with your future partner and ascertain their support.
Grasping at Love
Sometimes, failing to get into a relationship repeatedly can dent your self-confidence and make you feel inadequate or unimportant. You obviously want to feel good about yourself instead of being so miserable. This may make you dash into the relationship without really thinking too much. You need a partner to prove to yourself that you are capable of attaining one.
Hence you may easily end up choosing the wrong person and subsequently hurt both yourself and the other. Never go into a relationship based on such reasons.
To Thine Own Self Be True
Before beginning a relationship, carefully examine your own self, your requirements, and find out what kind of qualities you seek in a partner.
Only when you are sure of these aspects should you start looking for the right individual for yourself. This is the safest and surest way to attain bliss and happiness in love and in life.
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