Creating a Happy Relationship

Hey ladies, the first step in creating a happy, healthy and loving relationship is to love yourself authentically. Creating a trusting and constructive partnership involves patience and effort, but before that you must strive to create a wonderful relationship with yourself before you look for another to share it with. Appreciate yourself and believe this from the depth of your heart. Do not lose your own sense of true self while trying to fit your partner into your life. Keep your individuality alive and sparking and the right man who is meant for you will be able to see your soul and accept you for who you really are as an individual.

You’ll know that you are in a great relationship when you feel comfortable with your partner and when there is mutual respect for one another. Love and respect always go together. How can you expect to trust or gain trust from someone who is not able to give you dignity? You shouldn’t be treated as a mere object and your needs should never be taken for granted. Your man should definitely be able to make you feel recognised and appreciated. It is a good idea to discuss early on in the relationship as to what respect really means to each of you. The intention of either individual within the couple must not be about satisfying the self. Make sure your man does not run away at the first signs of discomfort. And of course, needless to say, communication is of vital importance. Both of you must be able to express your needs and desires with ease. There should be no restriction in talking about and discussing your likes, hopes and problems. Resentment can slowly start building if you avoid talking about difficult topics. There is nothing wrong in being able to argue and have disagreements every now and then and debating makes sure that both of you are able to be completely open about your opinions with each other, which is actually a good sign. In fact, a relationship that is all calm and rosy is considered fake. But keep an eye on how you react and respond during such disagreements. Be kind and avoid harsh words – the strength and life of your relationship depends on how you are able to recover from such a rocky phase.

A man who is truly in love with you and has serious ideas about being committed to you for life, would never want to hurt you. Emotional intimacy is said to be hard for men, but he will be open and vulnerable with his feelings towards you and will be proud to show you off to his family and friends. He actually makes you a part of his life and can see a future with you in it. He will do all it takes to keep you happy and safe. He considers you as an equal partner and his actions will unfailingly match his words. You will automatically be able to see yourself trust him with your open heart and can never imagine a life without him ever again.

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