What Did You Learn?

A breakup is painful, but it is not completely terrible either. You can look at it this way – What Did You Learn? At least, you gained one more experience on love and life. One day, when you have healed completely from the heartbreak, you will find yourself smiling over the silly things that you have done.
Learning from this relationship which has now come to an end:

Lessons Learned

Now you know how to choose a better partner. In future, you will feel more confident with yourself and your choice. You will know what is best for yourself and who deserves your genuine love and care.

By making mistakes in the relationship that just broke up, you learned how to treat your future partner better. Through that relationship, you now understand better what really makes a partner happy.

Hopefully you now know when to give encouragement, and when to avoid picking on your partner. You know what must or must not be done, and what should or should not be talked about.

Though it was a hard lesson, you learned how to handle heartbreak better. In case there is another failed relationship in future, you will be stronger as you will have gone through this experience before. You won’t be as fragile about love life. You know what you can do to pick yourself up.

Besides, through this experience, you may have learned how to communicate better with other people.

On a positive note, you learned how to respect others. When you are in a relationship, you care for your partner most of the time, trying to understand each other and avoid complications in life. Respect is important. In your past relationship, you learned to respect your partner’s personal time and space. Also, his or her right to speak out.

Now you should know yourself better. This is as opposed to presuming that you know who you are. Your partner is like a mirror to you – they reflect your personality and character. They also reflect ways to handle daily activities.

When you are in a committed relationship, you slowly get to realise your own mistakes. This is because your partner points them out to you.

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