How to Avoid Rekindling the Love

There is usually a strong temptation to keep seeing your ex once you have split up. This is always a recipe for disaster. So too is talking about him or her, or staying friends with his or her friends. Let’s look at How to Avoid Rekindling the Love.

First precaution on the list is to stay away from your ex! This is the best way to get rid of having clingy feelings or emotion dependency towards him or her. Just simply stay away from them. Try to avoid staying in touch, as staying in touch will create chances for both of you to rekindle the flame. Do not worry about how you will survive the breakup.

Here are some tips on how to stay away from your ex.

Staying Away

Just stick with it. It will be hard at first not to keep in touch with your ex, but it will get easier eventually. Be disciplined in reminding yourself not to fall into the trap of wanting to get back together. Plus, have faith in you.

Politely ignore all of your ex’s attempts to contact you. Your ex may feel bad for breaking up with you, or remain concerned about you and still care. Try to reject or avoid these contacts by telling him/her that you need some time alone.

Avoid All Contact

Avoid face-to-face contact with your ex. Try to avoid meeting your ex as much as possible. Do not purposely look for your ex, or allow any chances for him/her to meet with you. Besides this, you should also consider avoiding his/her close friends and relatives.

Design Your Own Life

Go with your plans. To stay away from your ex, you should make your own plans to distract yourself from meeting your ex. People around may give you lots of advice, but it is best to stick with your own plans. Unless you are able to make the best choices out of the advice given.

Walk Away from Rumour-Mongers

Do not listen to rumours. People spread rumours just to make you feel upset, or it is sometimes done unintentionally. Do not get caught up with those negative comments; move away or excuse yourself from listening to them.

You will have to be disciplined with yourself if you want to break away from the relationship, but you can do it. Unless you are 100% sure that you’re able to make things work, don’t try to fix a broken relationship. You broke up for a reason. Don’t let that reason waste your time in meeting someone who is more compatible.

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