5 Simple Ways to Encourage Your Child
Children are being raised in an age where they need lots of love and encouragement in order to grow up into emotionally healthy young adults. You need to encourage them to develop their own thoughts and opinions. So here are 5 Simple Ways to Encourage Your Child that you could use with your children.
Acknowledge their Efforts
One of the first few things you could do is acknowledge their efforts. Most of the time, when we give our children household responsibilities we always forget to let them know that they have done a great job in doing their chores. If they didn’t perform their task very well, don’t go straight for the negative criticism. Tell them what they did right, that they did put in a good effort and give a suggestion in a positive manner. A suggestion given in a kind tone will be taken more positively by your child and will encourage him or her to do better next time.
Show Gratitude
Secondly, when they have done something great, remember to thank them. This is positive reinforcement and will make them proud of the good things that have done. In addition, you are also cultivating good manners in your children by being a good role model yourself.
Don’t Be Dismissive
Next, remember not to brush off their problem aside. How often when your children come home complaining about something, you just brush them off by saying that it is nothing? This will make your children feel that their problems are of a trivial matter and not worth their parent’s time. Next time, your children won’t bother coming to you with their problem and they will try and suffer their problem in silence. Instead try listening to what your children have to say and be supportive of them.
Show How Much You Love Them
Furthermore, remember to tell always show your love to your children. Tell them that you love them all the time. Give them a hug or a good night kiss before they sleep at night. It is best to encourage your child to grow up to be loving, healthy adults. If you hardly express your feelings to them, your children may grow up being cold and unemotional adults, unable to express their feelings. Your love will provide them the encouragement that they need when they are sad or feeling discouraged.
Include Having Fun
Lastly, remember to encourage your child’s imaginative side by having fun. Have activities together with them and let their imagination take charge so your adults will grow into fun loving adults. So what are you waiting for, don’t wait till tomorrow to start encouraging your kids. Start now!
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