The repeating pattern of abuse can last for years.

Don’t be a statistic.

Breaking the repeating pattern of abuse can take a lifetime. If you witnessed your mother being abused, chances are that you too will be abused, especially if either one or both parents were abusive towards you as well. You’ll repeat the family patterns until you break them, and you’ll pass them down to your own children. Making sure that this doesn’t happen requires awareness and a commitment to your own healing. It requires pulling out of the hustle and bustle of life in order to take time to work upon yourself. It requires developing discipline, and making your quest all about fixing yourself so that you can heal not only your own life, but affect the generations to come.

It is very important to heal your own life, because those who have suffered abuse go on to become the abusers of the next generation. Breaking the repeating pattern of abuse requires commitment and dedication. It becomes the quest of a warrior of the Light to do so successfully, but once done, you heal a whole line of people who are yet to be born through your future family line.

Decide what you are going to do – do you lie to yourself and stay stuck, refusing to do the work needed to break free, or do you face yourself head on and accept that this is your life’s mission and you’re going to take on the challenge. It’s up to you, but now that you’ve been confronted with this question, don’t just push it to the side and ignore it. Do something about it and go out there make it happen.

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Update: The first novel in our series of seven is now published, and is a courageous story of a young teen growing up in a home filled with domestic violence, and how she manoeuvres her way through such a difficult situation. Click here if you’d like to know more about this novel.

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