Why Didn’t My Relationship Work Out
So here you are, finding yourself regretting yet another lost relationship. You’re asking yourself “Why didn’t my relationship work out?” and you’re feeling broken, sad and stunned. You are withdrawing out of the hope of something happening with the man or woman whom you’ve been involved with. Thus, there’s a change of direction occurring which is causing a loosening of the belt, so to speak. You’re going into the void…. by that I mean, the space where you have no real idea of where you’re headed in the area of relationships.
Some of the Causes
This is a good thing…. let it happen. It is only when you begin going about your life as a happy single man or woman that things will change. It’s when you’re completely at a point where you don’t really care whether or not you find another partner that you can have one. That’s when the Celestial Forces will bring you together with someone whom you can have an equal relationship with.
You definitely do have a partner waiting for you down the track. It’s just that you haven’t been able to meet him or her yet because in the past you’ve fretted about whether or not it would happen. Your fretting has kept your good fortune at arm’s length. Until you no longer yearn to be with someone, your Celestial partner won’t come in. Or, it may be because you’ve not been centered and balanced, therefore you’ve not been in touch with your sixth sense about people. Consequently you’ve chosen the wrong partners. Or you’ve not been honourable in your dealings with others, and you’ve created bad Karma for yourself.
Soul Mates and Twin Flames
The thing about soul-mates is that there are many pieces and parts of our soul-mate out there. In the realm that we come from, we’re vast light bodies. Half of us stays in that realm and the other half splits into many pieces and parts and enters into the people born on earth. Some are male, some are female. When you meet someone who reminds you of yourself, it’s because that individual holds a piece of the same larger soul that you come from in the Celestial realms. When you meet soul-mates who remind you of each other, that’s the different pieces and parts of your Celestial partner manifested as humans on your path.
The goal of having a twin-flame relationship is to find the piece of our partner who is the most well developed. In order to attract him or her into our life we must work towards our own development. This is so that we can manifest the best version of our partner because we ourselves are the best version of ourselves. Then, when we have worked upon ourselves to the point where we can have that Celestial relationship, we are magnetically drawn to find each other – because we are finally ready.
When will you be close to being ready to manifest your twin-flame relationship? It’s when you’re able to walk away from relationships of all kinds that aren’t good for you. When you begin choosing to leave a potential partner who isn’t right for you, then you know that you’re almost ready. This applies even to a friendship with someone who doesn’t contribute equally to the friendship. When you have a high level of love and respect for yourself, you’ll manifest a partner who has the same view of you. Plus, you won’t tolerate disrespect from others.
When we choose to walk away from things that aren’t good for us, we’re ready to have what we want. The Forces of Light want us to be in loving relationships. Loving, strongly bonded relationships emit alot of light. This light stretches out from us for vast distances around us. Our relationship’s beam of light connects with all the other strongly bonded relationships in our locality. When it does, it serves a higher purpose – happy relationships are very important.
How a Loving Relationship Assists Our World
All of those powerful little dots of light connect to form a grid. That grid covers the planet and keeps evil at bay. This is why there has been an attack on the teachings of Christianity and other churches where the importance of family is taught. When Christianity is taught in a way that gives us love and freedom (and teaches us to have respect), it is good. All emphasis on loving relationships, family and children has been attacked. The dark force’s goal is to prevent us from getting together in a kind relationship with someone whom we love. Its aim is to break down the grid of protection that our Creators designed to give their children power over evil forces.
Loving yourself enough not to be abused is the key. However, don’t forget that not abusing yourself is just as important as not allowing others to abuse you. All great Masters have taught that the Kingdom of Heaven is within. If you allow someone into your life who abuses you, they have access to the Kingdom of Heaven within you. He or she brings their demons to the gates of Heaven via you. If you are cruel to yourself, this is just as bad if not worse than letting someone else abuse you.
The Celestial forces won’t let you find your Heavenly partner until you can protect the Heavenly realms. You are required to say NO to those who are likely or will obviously abuse you. You are required to be kind to yourself as well. Another important element is to go on a journey of healing that will close up any existing emotional wounds within you. Once done, your wounds become the scars that are the trophies of your life. Then, when you’re detached enough from the outcome, when you are healed of your wounds, and when you can love yourself unconditionally, you’ll be free to make that choice. Then you’ll be granted your wish of having true love.
Don’t Give Up
So don’t give up on your dream of having a loving relationship. Instead, just keep working on yourself. Get help to heal from the pain and disappointments of life. Work to heal from any traumatic or abusive experiences you’ve had. Process your own tardiness in your dealings in life and become immaculate and full of respect for others. Be kind to all sentient beings, including our animal and wildlife friends. Work until you get to a point where you could have a relationship or live without one. Then, your twin-flame is going to show up and change your world for the good.
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