Tag Archive | selflessness

How to Not Be the Abuser

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How not to be the Abuser

Written by AB

Having a relationship is an important element of human life and everybody wants a true and sincere relationship. But how many relationships are based on mutual understanding and respect? If you are in a relationship and you’d like to make sure that you are doing the right thing by your partner, ask yourself the following questions: Do you feel secure in your relationship? Do you really enjoy spending time with your spouse or partner? Do you think your partner tries to control your behavior or make you scared? Although having a sincere and loving relationship is a great blessing, not everyone goes into a relationship for the right reasons. Thus, there is a great increase in the number of abusive relationships in the recent years. This article explains how not to be the abuser. Continue reading

Loving Relationships

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Loving Relationships

Author: Rasheda Abdulla

How many times have we imagined what it will be like to be in love? From how they look, what race or nationality they will be to how much money they will make. Oh we know.

Along with the aesthetics of our love to be, we know how we want them to act and in particular, how we want them to treat us. We want to be loved entirely. But while having standards for the type of person we want to spend the rest of our life with is extremely important, we have to remember that we must be willing to reciprocate the same type of expectation we have for our significant other. It’s not about 50/50 in love, but about 100/100. That’s how you have a truly loving relationship. How much we are willing to put in must be equal to or more than what we get in return. Finding someone that will love us unconditionally means paying attention to character, ideals and on what and whom they place value. But that is only a piece of the puzzle. Continue reading