Whаt іѕ еmоtіоnаl аbuѕе? It’ѕ а fоrm оf bullуіng whісh оvеrrіdеѕ аnоthеr реrѕоn’ѕ fееlіngѕ оf ѕаfеtу, ѕеlf-wоrth, аnd аutоnоmу. Phуѕісаllу аbuѕеd wоmеn rерrеѕеnt оnе-quаrtеr tо оnе-thіrd оf аll wоmеn nееdіng еmеrgеnсу trеаtmеnt. In Australia, one woman each week is killed by her partner. That’s very high statistics in a country that has nowhere near the same number of people that Britain and the United States have. Half of all women murdered in the United States were killed by their partners. In Brіtаіn, twо wоmеn а wееk аrе kіllеd bу thеіr раrtnеrѕ. Thеѕе rеѕultѕ аrе есhоеd thе wоrld оvеr. Continue reading →
The poem below is a fair description of what happens to women when they experience severe trauma and abuse throughout their lives. When a woman reaches a point such as this, it’s time to get some help from healers who don’t just work with the mind. Trauma gets stuck in the body via cellular memory and congregates around certain parts of the body, sometimes manifesting as cancer. When there is alot of stored pain in the body, you have to let it go. It’s the only way to heal. Some of you will be able to relate to this poem alot…… Continue reading →
This pain is not to make you sad, remember. That’s where people go on missing…. This pain is just to make you more alert — because people become alert only when the arrow goes deep into their heart and wounds them. Otherwise they don’t become alert. When life is easy, comfortable, convenient, who cares? Who bothers to become alert? When a friend dies, there is a possibility. When your man leaves you alone — those dark nights, you are lonely. You have loved that man so much and you have staked all, and then suddenly one day he is gone. Crying in your loneliness, those are the occasions when, if you use them, you can become aware. The arrow is hurting: it can be used. The pain is not to make you miserable, the pain is to make you more aware! And when you are aware, misery disappears.
Also, drop guilt! — because to be guilty is to live in hell. Not being guilty, you will have the freshness of dewdrops in the early morning sun, you will have the freshness of lotus petals in the lake, you will have the freshness of the stars in the night. Once guilt disappears you will have a totally different kind of life, luminous and radiant. You will have a dance to your feet and your heart will be singing a thousand and one songs.