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What is True Loyalty?

what is true loyalty

What is True Loyalty?

Thе соnсерt оf lоуаltу іѕ а роѕіtіvе оnе іn mоѕt реорlе’ѕ mіndѕ. It соnјurеѕ vіѕіоnѕ оf dеvоtіоn, соmmіtmеnt, lоvе, rеѕресt, аnd hоnоur. In а hеаlthу rеlаtіоnѕhір thаt іnvоlvеѕ twо еmоtіоnаllу bаlаnсеd реорlе, lоуаltу іѕ аррrорrіаtе аnd саn сеmеnt а mutuаllу ѕаtіѕfуіng, fulfіllіng unіоn. Hоwеvеr, thеrе аrе іnѕtаnсеѕ whеrе “lоуаltу” саn bе ѕеrіоuѕlу mіѕрlасеd. If а раrtnеr іѕ bеіng аbuѕеd еmоtіоnаllу оr оthеrwіѕе bу thе оthеr реrѕоn іn thе rеlаtіоnѕhір, thе dеvоtіоn аnd аttасhmеnt ѕhоwn bу thе vісtіm іѕ unhеаlthу. So then, what is true loyalty? Hеrе аrе 4 rеаѕоnѕ why thе соnсерt оf lоуаltу саn bе mіѕрlасеd іn аbuѕіvе rеlаtіоnѕhірѕ: Continue reading

Pain, Awareness and Guilt

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by Osho

This pain is not to make you sad, remember. That’s where people go on missing…. This pain is just to make you more alert — because people become alert only when the arrow goes deep into their heart and wounds them. Otherwise they don’t become alert. When life is easy, comfortable, convenient, who cares? Who bothers to become alert? When a friend dies, there is a possibility. When your man leaves you alone — those dark nights, you are lonely. You have loved that man so much and you have staked all, and then suddenly one day he is gone. Crying in your loneliness, those are the occasions when, if you use them, you can become aware. The arrow is hurting: it can be used. The pain is not to make you miserable, the pain is to make you more aware! And when you are aware, misery disappears.

Also, drop guilt!  —  because to be guilty is to live in hell. Not being guilty, you will have the freshness of dewdrops in the early morning sun, you will have the freshness of lotus petals in the lake, you will have the freshness of the stars in the night. Once guilt disappears you will have a totally different kind of life, luminous and radiant. You will have a dance to your feet and your heart will be singing a thousand and one songs.