Challenges in Finding the Right Partner
No matter how hard you try to block out the fact, not all relationships are meant to last. The ‘happily ever after’ scenario is only limited to fairy tales, and not real life. At least not always at the first go. Thousands of minute factors all work against and break our relationship up, despite our best efforts to make it work. Challenges in Finding the Right Partner happen for all of us. It’s whether you have the patience to wait until the Right One comes along that is the biggest challenge of all.
Conscious Mating
The only way one can accept this truth is if they come out of their fairytale worlds and believe in Conscious Mating. And this is the best way to avoid a major pain in the end. While some problems can be tackled trough discussions and sittings, some others cannot. This is natural and not exclusive to your relationship. So it is in this pre-commitment phase that one must analyse the level of problems and try either to solve them or decide to part.
So, it is this time, when you are not yet in wed lock and free to easily go your own way, to make a non-judgmental and practical choice. It sounds difficult, and it probably is, but it will reduce a lot of unnecessary hassle later on. So identify what you and your partner want from this relationship and how much you have in common, now that the ideal romantic phase is long past.
Accordingly make the choice and keep to it, to prevent all the good memories acquired, being lost amongst all the bitter fights later on. So be practical and sort out matters now and be happy later knowing if this did not work out there will be someone else who will be right for you.
Pain Prevention
Always think carefully before getting into a relationship permanently. It might be painful to break up now, when you are ‘going out’ together in that pre-committed state. However it will be even worse later. It will be extremely disastrous and painful once there are other parties like family and kids involved. So it is best to decide now. Decide whether you’re getting relationship is what you are getting out of your current one.
This very important in the long run. Why? Because perhaps you will end up bitter and disappointed later on if you don’t work out what you want now. It is highly possible that your ‘love’ now might not be the right love for you at all. That is why (before you get into ugly fights), you need to make a rational and well thought out decision now.
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