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Don’t Try to Fix Him

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Don’t Try to Fix Him

I’m ѕurе that уоu’vе fеlt іnfurіаtеd а fеw tіmеѕ bеfоrе whеn оnе оf уоur gіrl frіеndѕ hооkеd uр wіth ѕоmе guу thаt уоu knеw wаѕ а tоtаl јеrk. If thаt wаѕn’t bаd еnоugh, ѕhе ѕееmеd tо tоlеrаtе еvеrу ѕіnglе bаd quаlіtу thаt thе guу hаd. Worse still, whеn уоu thоught that thе wоrѕt wаѕ оvеr whеn thеіr rеlаtіоnѕhір еndеd, уоu соuldn’t bеlіеvе іt whеn уоu hеаrd that уоur gіrl frіеnd wаѕ trуіng tо gеt bасk tоgеthеr wіth hіm! She thinks she can fix him, but there’s only one rule that you should ever aim to remember when dating a man, and that’s Don’t try to fix him! He can’t be fixed by you. Continue reading

Control and Domination

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Control and Domination

A соntrоllіng rеlаtіоnѕhір will hаvе а hugе іmрасt оn уоur lіfе. It саn lіmіt уоu іn ѕо mаnу wауѕ аnd уоu еnd uр fееlіng ѕtrеѕѕеd, unhарру, аnd dерrеѕѕеd. It іѕ іmроrtаnt tо еmрhаѕіsе that thіѕ tуре оf rеlаtіоnѕhір fits thе саtеgоrу оf аn аbuѕіvе rеlаtіоnѕhір. Many women do nоt rеаlіsе thіѕ. Whеn уоu actually get it, іt іѕ vіtаl tо еxаmіnе thе рrіmаrу соmроnеntѕ оf аn аbuѕіvе rеlаtіоnѕhір  ie. control and domination, to discover hоw they rеlаtе. Continue reading

Percentage of Violence Against Men

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Percentage of Violence Against Men

For a long time, domestic violence has been associated and understood exclusively as an issue of women. All attention is given to the females who are abused by men, but unfortunately, men who are abused by women are overlooked. According to a report, more than 40% of the victims of domestic violence are male. This percentage of male victims might seem very high to some people, but this is a fact and this number is continually growing. Continue reading

How to Not Be the Abuser

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How not to be the Abuser

Written by AB

Having a relationship is an important element of human life and everybody wants a true and sincere relationship. But how many relationships are based on mutual understanding and respect? If you are in a relationship and you’d like to make sure that you are doing the right thing by your partner, ask yourself the following questions: Do you feel secure in your relationship? Do you really enjoy spending time with your spouse or partner? Do you think your partner tries to control your behavior or make you scared? Although having a sincere and loving relationship is a great blessing, not everyone goes into a relationship for the right reasons. Thus, there is a great increase in the number of abusive relationships in the recent years. This article explains how not to be the abuser. Continue reading

Why Men Love Bitches

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The title of Sherry Argov’s book isn’t referring to a woman who is constantly in someone’s face. It’s about women who have enough value and respect for themselves to not fall into the trap of being their partner’s doormat. I would highly recommend that all women read this book if they haven’t ready. It definitely helps you realise why all of your relationships seem to be relationshits. Men will only walk all over women who don’t act strong. If you are weak in any way, then you can expect to be treated like a doormat.

Here are 100 attraction principles that are taken from Sherry’s book: Continue reading

Real Men Don’t Beat Their Wives

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Real men beat their meat, not their women and children.

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Update: The first novel in our series of seven is now published, and is a courageous story of a young teen growing up in a home filled with domestic violence, and how she manoeuvres her way through such a difficult situation. Click here if you’d like to know more about this novel.

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The Depth of a Woman’s Love

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Men are terrified of a woman’s depth of love and the energy that moves as a woman’s sexuality and emotions. And, at the same time, men want nothing more in this life than to merge completely with a woman’s devotional love and wild energy.

Only as a man outgrows his fear can he handle a woman’s tremendous love-energy without running. And only such a man is worthy of your devotional offering in a committed intimacy.

~David Deida~

The Seven Lies of Marriage

The Seven Lies of Marriage

The Seven Lies of Marriage

Couples therapist and author John W. Jacobs, M.D., has found a pattern in the people he counsels: Their expectations of marriage are often so unrealistic that even the strongest of relationships doesn’t stand a chance. In this excerpt from his book All You Need Is Love and Other Lies about Marriage, he explains what he calls “The Seven Lies of Marriage”: Continue reading

The Effects of Marijuana on Relationships

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The Effects of Marijuana on Relationships

by Brie Gatchalian

What some might think to be a harmless drug is not harmless at all. In fact, marijuana can cause serious sexual problems in many couples. “Marijuana users might experience very weak orgasms or not experience them at all,” says Dr. Juan C. Paredes, board-certified psychiatrist based in South Beach Clinic in Miami Beach who sub-specialises in sexual medicine for men.

We asked Dr. Paredes, as well as Dr. Dennis Lin, sex therapist, psychiatrist and attending physician at the Department of Psychiatry at Beth Israel Medical Center in New York, NY, other questions on the subject. Read on to uncover some important facts about pot and sex… Continue reading

Courtship and Female Intuition

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Today’s values seem to make any kind of behaviour ok, and as such, there is alot of confusion about how to create a good strong foundation for a relationship. I was born in the sixties and grew up with a certain amount of influence from my local fellowship and church. I was taught during my early years that it was best not to immediately have sex with a person when you first start dating, and in hindsight, that teaching suited my personality more aptly than living a more promiscuous lifestyle like some others are OK with doing. For me, my choices were affected by the fact that the someone whom I loved surprised me with sex when we had our first kiss. He acted so quickly and took advantage when he knew that I had such strong feelings that I was like a rabbit in the spotlight, blinded and frozen. It was over in less than a minute, and shortly he was up and gone. I was so disappointed because he was someone I thought was about to become my boyfriend, plus there were spiritual ties between us so it went much deeper than him just being a guy who lived down the road.We were connected on many levels. What shocked me though was that he thought himself pretty cool to have done that to me, because he then went on to brag about it to his mates with the intention to humiliate me, which caused me a huge amount of pain at the time. Continue reading