It’s not often that people consider the spiritual aspect of sex when they are about to share intimacy with another. Yet, it is the most important act that one could do to prepare themselves for such a union. When a man enters your birth canal, what type of energy and consciousness does he have? Is he bitter? Is he happy? Does he love himself? Does he love you? Is he a positive or a negative thinker? Continue reading →
The title of Sherry Argov’s book isn’t referring to a woman who is constantly in someone’s face. It’s about women who have enough value and respect for themselves to not fall into the trap of being their partner’s doormat. I would highly recommend that all women read this book if they haven’t ready. It definitely helps you realise why all of your relationships seem to be relationshits. Men will only walk all over women who don’t act strong. If you are weak in any way, then you can expect to be treated like a doormat.
Although this blog is written in support of helping women leave violent relationships, I’m also very highly aware of how women can use lies against a partner in order to gain some kind of vengeance against him for something he may or may not have done. Violence and abuse isn’t limited to men alone. I have zero tolerance for any woman who lies about her partner or ex-partner in order to gain benefit in her own life. This is not what my organisation is about. Continue reading →
There are Five Ways to Say No! Let’s look at how to go about that. The ultimate best way to say no is prior to going on a date, to tell your date that you have no intentions of sleeping with him at the end of the evening. If he’s not happy with that, he’ll tell you not to bother. Good. It saves you from having to fend him off when he tries to impose himself on you later in the evening.
However, even though you may told your date that you’re not going to sleep with him until you know for sure that you’re going to have a committed relationship, he may still try to seduce you into sleeping with him. So this is how to handle the situation when you’ve got a problem on your hands. Continue reading →
Men are terrified of a woman’s depth of love and the energy that moves as a woman’s sexuality and emotions. And, at the same time, men want nothing more in this life than to merge completely with a woman’s devotional love and wild energy.
Only as a man outgrows his fear can he handle a woman’s tremendous love-energy without running. And only such a man is worthy of your devotional offering in a committed intimacy.
Couples therapist and author John W. Jacobs, M.D., has found a pattern in the people he counsels: Their expectations of marriage are often so unrealistic that even the strongest of relationships doesn’t stand a chance. In this excerpt from his book All You Need Is Love and Other Lies about Marriage, he explains what he calls “The Seven Lies of Marriage”: Continue reading →
What some might think to be a harmless drug is not harmless at all. In fact, marijuana can cause serious sexual problems in many couples. “Marijuana users might experience very weak orgasms or not experience them at all,” says Dr. Juan C. Paredes, board-certified psychiatrist based in South Beach Clinic in Miami Beach who sub-specialises in sexual medicine for men.
We asked Dr. Paredes, as well as Dr. Dennis Lin, sex therapist, psychiatrist and attending physician at the Department of Psychiatry at Beth Israel Medical Center in New York, NY, other questions on the subject. Read on to uncover some important facts about pot and sex… Continue reading →
Today’s values seem to make any kind of behaviour ok, and as such, there is alot of confusion about how to create a good strong foundation for a relationship. I was born in the sixties and grew up with a certain amount of influence from my local fellowship and church. I was taught during my early years that it was best not to immediately have sex with a person when you first start dating, and in hindsight, that teaching suited my personality more aptly than living a more promiscuous lifestyle like some others are OK with doing. For me, my choices were affected by the fact that the someone whom I loved surprised me with sex when we had our first kiss. He acted so quickly and took advantage when he knew that I had such strong feelings that I was like a rabbit in the spotlight, blinded and frozen. It was over in less than a minute, and shortly he was up and gone. I was so disappointed because he was someone I thought was about to become my boyfriend, plus there were spiritual ties between us so it went much deeper than him just being a guy who lived down the road.We were connected on many levels. What shocked me though was that he thought himself pretty cool to have done that to me, because he then went on to brag about it to his mates with the intention to humiliate me, which caused me a huge amount of pain at the time. Continue reading →