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Approaching Her

Approaching Her

You probably have a woman in mind that you want to woo or maybe you don’t and you just bump into a woman and you were instantly attracted to her, the first thing you would want to do is to have a conversation with her. I have noticed that most men find it difficult to approach a woman and initiate conversations with them.

Initiating conversation with a woman is a big challenge for most men, some are unsure of how to do this in a respectful manner without sounding rude to the woman; some can hold their own once the ball starts rolling; some cannot converse with a woman at all because they are too shy or timid, while some find it hard to communicate at a casual level with other people (men and women included) but feel very comfortable talking about topics such as football, politics, science, religion etc.

When approaching a woman the most important thing to keep in mind is that first impressions are priceless. They are established within the first three seconds after you introduce yourself. This means that there is no room for error and you should also know that chatting up a lady is not like in the movies where you can just walk up to a girl and drop some cheesy one liner: then they are in your bed the next morning.

Don’t use pickup lines because they make the lady feel cheap and it destroys conversation. It’s hard to think of what to say afterward. Instead, start with innocent small talk, and you will have a base to build an interesting conversation on.

A trick that never fails to work, is to focus all your attention and energy of the creature before you and behave as if nothing else exists in the world. Focus on what the woman needs and not what you need. For instance women are a creature of drama, and will prefer a soap opera to a sport game.

Women sense and are turned off by insecurity, so make sure you look and act confident. Groom, dress, move, and pursue like a man who is secure with women and with himself. Be yourself don’t fake it.

Start by first talking and later making friends with the person you think is special. Most people don’t like to jump straight into a relationship, especially girls. Find a reason to talk to the person. Make sure that they want to talk to you. Just talk about something that keeps the conversation going.

Be yourself and don’t lie just to get to a special person’s heart. If they find out later and you’re in the middle of a deep relationship or maybe a time when you really need that person, they will leave for good. Let the person know that you like them. Beyond the cheesy sending a note through a friend, talk to them about something you both have in common.

If you are meeting the woman for the first time strike a conversation with her and let her know that you admire her and would want to know her better, introduce yourself and ask her for her name and number, if she is interested in you she would ask for your number, if she doesn’t don’t despair she might be the shy type or the type that believes it is a man’s duty to do the chasing.

Tell her that you would call her but don’t tell when. Make sure you call her as promised her and ask her for a date. If after the first date two dates what you expected was not what you got or you find out she is not the kind of woman you would want to have a permanent relationship with. Let her know that you could just be friends or break it off don’t toy with her feelings. Because if you go on a date with a woman more than twice, she concludes that you are having a permanent relationship with her.

If you have known her for long, maybe you have been friends for sometime and you just realize that you want more than friendship, let her know the level you want your friendship to get to. Don’t nurse your feelings for her in secret or assume that she wants the same thing. She might be romantically involved with somebody already or she might not want more than friendship with you.

Probably she wants you too but does not want to cross the boundary of friendship. Talk with her, tell her how you feel. Act fast before someone beats you to it. Don’t be like these two…

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A Knight’s Tale

A Knight’s Tale

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighbouring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur’s youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question… Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death.
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What Women Want From a Man

What Women Want From a Man

What Women Want From a Man

Every man has been in this situation at some point in his life where he wants to know What Women Want From a Man. Asking the simple question, “What does she want from me?” Every man should be able to answer this question before trying to woo a woman.

The first thing to comprehend is that women will always have different psychological make-ups and different wants from a relationship. But most women look for the same things that will ensure happiness and success. A quick look at these points below will give you an insight into a woman’s expectations.
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How to Define The Right Woman for You

How to Define the Right Woman for You

How to Define the Right Woman for You

We continue with our January articles on How to Court and Catch a Woman. Here we’ll look at the different versions of a good woman. A good woman will be the only woman who is right for you. Find the right woman and then strategise to get her, but first in that process is to define who the right woman might be for you. This article gives you tips on How to Define the Right Woman for You. Continue reading

How To Court a Woman

How To Court a Woman

How To Court a Woman

In the last two centuries women have become more independent. Gone are the days when women had no say about issues that directly affect them. Issues such as whom to date or marry, or whether to go to school or not, are no longer an issue for women. The days of arranged marriages are forever gone in most societies. In those remaining societies where arranged marriages still go on, women’s resistance to it is huge. Women everywhere are becoming more aware, so it would benefit you to learn How To Court a Woman.

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Expressing Your Love Through Writing

Express Your Love Through Writing

Expressing Your Love Through Writing

Expressing Your Love Through Writing to your beloved is a lovely way to say what you can’t say when standing with him or her. It can be done in many ways. One way of getting your feelings through to that special someone is by writing poetry. However, if you are not so handy with poems you may want to try simply writing a love letter. If all else fails you can always just write your feelings down and present them to him or her. It is true that expressing emotions is difficult. But with the help of this article you will be able to do it in no time. Continue reading

How Will I Know If I am With the Right One?

How Will I Know If I am With the Right One

How Will I Know If I am With the Right One?

If you’re asking yourself How Will I Know If I am With the Right One, read on. One of the best ways to know if the relationship that you are currently in is right for you, read through the following list. You will read tips on how to know when you should leave the relationship that you’re in given below.

If you feel that none of these characteristics apply to your relationship, then you need not worry about it at all! Continue reading

Moving On to a New Relationship

Moving On to a New Relationship

Moving On to a New Relationship

A breakup is painful and difficult to deal with on so many levels. The end of a close relationship, an intimate friendship, the dreams that were shared with the significant other are just few things which are lost. Moving On to a New Relationship without the trauma of the one past can only be done when you’re ready.

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15 Questions to Ask Yourself

15 Questions to Ask Yourself

15 Questions to Ask Yourself

Here are 15 Questions to Ask Yourself before getting into a Long Term Relationship. If you are in or have ever been in one, you would be well conversant with the pains and pleasures that are involved. There are moments of happiness interspersed with bouts of doubt and difference of opinions between you and your partner. Often in the first few months or may be even in the first few years the couple are blissfully happy. They are head over heels in love with each other and cannot find any flaw in their mate, however hard they try. Continue reading

Time Factors in Relationships

Time Factors in Relationships

Time Factors in Relationships

Let’s say that you have a perfect relationship. You are always together and are comfortable with the arrangement. However, Time Factors in Relationships can become a pertinent issue of contest between partners. One man states that other than the study and work schedule, he and his partner do all other work together. He has to neglect his obligations because his partner gets upset if she has to timeshare with other hobbies. Whereas she gets all the time for her hobbies and interests when he is at college. Continue reading