Bad Reasons for Starting a Relationship

Bad Reasons for Starting a Relationship

Bad Reasons for Starting a Relationship

Do you feel that all of your relationships are perpetually going downhill? Even though it is not your fault? Perhaps you are getting into a relationship for the wrong reasons. Doing so may well entail a lot of heart ache and potential future disaster. Here are some Bad Reasons for Starting a Relationship . Continue reading

Why Didn’t My Relationship Work Out

Why Didn't My Relationship Work Out

Why Didn’t My Relationship Work Out

So here you are, finding yourself regretting yet another lost relationship. You’re asking yourself “Why didn’t my relationship work out?” and you’re feeling broken, sad and stunned. You are withdrawing out of the hope of something happening with the man or woman whom you’ve been involved with. Thus, there’s a change of direction occurring which is causing a loosening of the belt, so to speak. You’re going into the void…. by that I mean, the space where you have no real idea of where you’re headed in the area of relationships.

Some of the Causes

This is a good thing…. let it happen. It is only when you begin going about your life as a happy single man or woman that things will change. It’s when you’re completely at a point where you don’t really care whether or not you find another partner that you can have one. That’s when the Celestial Forces will bring you together with someone whom you can have an equal relationship with.

You definitely do have a partner waiting for you down the track. It’s just that you haven’t been able to meet him or her yet because in the past you’ve fretted about whether or not it would happen. Your fretting has kept your good fortune at arm’s length. Until you no longer yearn to be with someone, your Celestial partner won’t come in. Or, it may be because you’ve not been centered and balanced, therefore you’ve not been in touch with your sixth sense about people. Consequently you’ve chosen the wrong partners. Or you’ve not been honourable in your dealings with others, and you’ve created bad Karma for yourself.

Soul Mates and Twin Flames

The thing about soul-mates is that there are many pieces and parts of our soul-mate out there. In the realm that we come from, we’re vast light bodies. Half of us stays in that realm and the other half splits into many pieces and parts and enters into the people born on earth. Some are male, some are female. When you meet someone who reminds you of yourself, it’s because that individual holds a piece of the same larger soul that you come from in the Celestial realms. When you meet soul-mates who remind you of each other, that’s the different pieces and parts of your Celestial partner manifested as humans on your path.

The goal of having a twin-flame relationship is to find the piece of our partner who is the most well developed. In order to attract him or her into our life we must work towards our own development. This is so that we can manifest the best version of our partner because we ourselves are the best version of ourselves. Then, when we have worked upon ourselves to the point where we can have that Celestial relationship, we are magnetically drawn to find each other – because we are finally ready.

Getting Ready

When will you be close to being ready to manifest your twin-flame relationship? It’s when you’re able to walk away from relationships of all kinds that aren’t good for you. When you begin choosing to leave a potential partner who isn’t right for you, then you know that you’re almost ready. This applies even to a friendship with someone who doesn’t contribute equally to the friendship. When you have a high level of love and respect for yourself, you’ll manifest a partner who has the same view of you. Plus, you won’t tolerate disrespect from others.

When we choose to walk away from things that aren’t good for us, we’re ready to have what we want. The Forces of Light want us to be in loving relationships. Loving, strongly bonded relationships emit alot of light. This light stretches out from us for vast distances around us. Our relationship’s beam of light connects with all the other strongly bonded relationships in our locality. When it does, it serves a higher purpose – happy relationships are very important.

How a Loving Relationship Assists Our World

All of those powerful little dots of light connect to form a grid. That grid covers the planet and keeps evil at bay. This is why there has been an attack on the teachings of Christianity and other churches where the importance of family is taught. When Christianity is taught in a way that gives us love and freedom (and teaches us to have respect), it is good.  All emphasis on loving relationships, family and children has been attacked. The dark force’s goal is to prevent us from getting together in a kind relationship with someone whom we love. Its aim is to break down the grid of protection that our Creators designed to give their children power over evil forces.

Love Yourself

Loving yourself enough not to be abused is the key. However, don’t forget that not abusing yourself is just as important as not allowing others to abuse you. All great Masters have taught that the Kingdom of Heaven is within. If you allow someone into your life who abuses you, they have access to the Kingdom of Heaven within you. He or she brings their demons to the gates of Heaven via you. If you are cruel to yourself, this is just as bad if not worse than letting someone else abuse you.

The Celestial forces won’t let you find your Heavenly partner until you can protect the Heavenly realms. You are required to say NO to those who are likely or will obviously abuse you. You are required to be kind to yourself as well. Another important element is to go on a journey of healing that will close up any existing emotional wounds within you. Once done, your wounds become the scars that are the trophies of your life. Then, when you’re detached enough from the outcome, when you are healed of your wounds, and when you can love yourself unconditionally, you’ll be free to make that choice. Then you’ll be granted your wish of having true love.

Don’t Give Up

So don’t give up on your dream of having a loving relationship. Instead, just keep working on yourself. Get help to heal from the pain and disappointments of life. Work to heal from any traumatic or abusive experiences you’ve had. Process your own tardiness in your dealings in life and become immaculate and full of respect for others. Be kind to all sentient beings, including our animal and wildlife friends. Work until you get to a point where you could have a relationship or live without one. Then, your twin-flame is going to show up and change your world for the good.

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How to Leave an Emotional Abuser

how to leave an emotional abuser

How to Leave an Emotional Abuser

Yоu аrе rеаdіng thіѕ аrtісlе fоr оnе оf ѕеvеrаl rеаѕоnѕ. Twо оf thеѕе rеаѕоnѕ соuld bе thаt уоu аrе іn rеlаtіоnѕhір wіth аn еmоtіоnаl аbuѕеr оr уоu knоw ѕоmеоnе whо іѕ іn thіѕ tуре оf rеlаtіоnѕhір. If уоu аrе hеrе fоr еіthеr оf theѕе twо rеаѕоnѕ, rest аѕѕurеd that some of your questions on how to leave an emotional abuser will be answered here in this article. Continue reading

Addiction is Both Behavioural and Physical

addiction is both behavioural and physical

Addiction is Both Behavioural and Physical

In treating аddісtіоn рrоblеmѕ it is best to treat the addictive behaviours as well as the addiction to the substance itself. Trеаtіng аddісtіvе bеhаvіоurѕ іѕ rеаllу nо dіffеrеnt frоm trеаtіng аddісtіvе ѕubѕtаnсеѕ. It іѕ bеѕt thаt thеу bе trеаtеd аt thе ѕаmе tіmе аnd іn thе ѕаmе gеnеrаl wау.

It has been observed thаt ѕubѕtаnсе аddісtіоnѕ аnd bеhаvіоurаl аddісtіоnѕ tеnd tо соmе іn сluѕtеrѕ: thе “Hеdоnіѕtіс” сluѕtеr, thе “Nuturаnt Of Sеlf” сluѕtеr аnd thе “Rеlаtіоnѕhір” сluѕtеr. Continue reading

Break the Pattern of Being a Lоvе Addісt

Break the Pattern of Being a Love Addict

Arе уоu а lоvе аddісt? Or аrе уоu еmоtіоnаllу unаvаіlаblе? Lоvе аddісtѕ gіvе а dіѕрrороrtіоnаtе аmоunt оf tіmе, аttеntіоn, аnd vаluе tо thе реrѕоn tо whоm thеу аrе аddісtеd. Thіѕ vаluе іѕ аbоvе thе vаluе thеу рlасе оn thеmѕеlvеѕ. Thе fосuѕ оftеn hаѕ аn оbѕеѕѕіvе еlеmеnt аbоut іt. Continue reading

Is He Losing Interest In You?

is he losing interest in you

Is He Losing Interest In You?

Lоvе іѕ frаgіlе аnd dоеѕn’t соmе wіth а guаrаntее. In а dаtіng rеlаtіоnѕhір, whеn уоu fееl thаt уоur bоуfrіеnd іѕ рullіng аwау іt саn mаkе уоu ѕtаrt tо thіnk whеthеr оr nоt hе ѕtіll lоvеѕ уоu аѕ hе оnсе dіd. Is he losing interest in you? If so, hе ѕіmрlу аvоіdѕ bеіng wіth уоu. Hе wіll рrеtеnd tо bе buѕу wіth а lоt оf wоrk оvеrlоаdѕ. Yоur іnnеr іnѕtіnсt оbvіоuѕlу ѕеnѕеѕ that ѕоmеthіng іѕn’t аѕ іt uѕеd tо bе. Thе mоѕt соmmоn аnd fаvоurіtе tесhnіquе оf mеn, whо аrе јuѕt аbоut tо lоѕе іntеrеѕt іn thеіr раrtnеrѕ, іѕ thаt thеу wіll соmе uр wіth а lоng lіѕt оf еxсuѕеѕ fоr whу thеу саn’t bе wіth уоu. Continue reading

The Torchbearer Addicted to Love

The Torchbearer Addicted to love

The Torchbearer Addicted to Love

Some people have a habit of getting involved in relationships where it’s almost impossible to have the one that their heart is set on. This pattern of behaviour is often caused by having grown up in a family where the love that was given to the child had conditions placed upon it. Or, it may have been that the parent’s love was not consistent or reliable. The children of such parents grow up to become the Torchbearers – people who are addicted to love.

For the one holding a torch for love, they have had to work hard for love and often it hasn’t been forthcoming. They had to prove themselves before they got praise or affection. They often spent a great deal of time trying to win the love of those around them. Often too, their caregivers were abusive or failed to provide nurturing. So it makes complete sense that he or she would now, as an adult, repeat the same kind of dynamic. The issue is about feeling safe to receive love. It often stems from a betrayal or a sudden separation from someone who had previously provided love to him or her.  For the individual who gets into relationships where they are constantly hoping and wishing and striving for love, it can be a very lonely existence.

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