Five Ways to Say NO!
There are Five Ways to Say No! Let’s look at how to go about that. The ultimate best way to say no is prior to going on a date, to tell your date that you have no intentions of sleeping with him at the end of the evening. If he’s not happy with that, he’ll tell you not to bother. Good. It saves you from having to fend him off when he tries to impose himself on you later in the evening.
However, even though you may told your date that you’re not going to sleep with him until you know for sure that you’re going to have a committed relationship, he may still try to seduce you into sleeping with him. So this is how to handle the situation when you’ve got a problem on your hands.
1. We’re moving too fast.
Most young guys these days will expect you to sleep with them on the first date. Tell him flat out that you’re not going to sleep with him. Tell him that you’re moving far too fast. Hopefully he’ll respect you saying this and leave you be.
2. It’s not the right time.
Tell him that sleeping with him now is not the right time or you to be able to decide if you want to sleep with him or not. Tell him that you only want to sleep with someone that you love, who loves you. If he’s a respectful guy, he’ll leave you alone when you say that.
3. We might get caught.
If he’s not listening, you could tell him that you might get caught and your parents would not approve. You’d get into heaps of trouble and that would mean that you couldn’t see him again. If he’s a decent guy, he’ll listen.
4. I’m just not ready.
This reason is the most truthful of all. Most young ladies only sleep with their date because they feel that he won’t want to go out with them again if they don’t. They usually aren’t ready, and they feel pressured into it. Most times the guy doesn’t see them again anyway, so what was the use of sleeping together? There was no reason to do so. Tell him that you’re just not ready. If he’s decent, he will respect you.
Just say NO!! No means NO!!
These are the ways to say NO to someone who is pressuring you to have sex before you want to or before you are ready. No means NO!!